Usually when I ask the daddy to babysit the kids, it's often the case
where each kid will be having their own tablet and either playing games
or watching some video on You tube with him as the supervisor on his
own tablet. Pet peeves I admit but nothing serious... over the years,
I've grown accustomed to this. This is how daddies are and it's not
unique to him. I see this happening to other daddies & their
kids at malls, at the doctors', everywhere... Of course I do wish that
the daddy can do other stuff with them like teaching them ABCs, doing
art & crafts, reading etc but that doesn't happen without
specific instructions from me, the terrorizing mummy. But that's the
difference between him and me and instead of trying to pick on this
difference, I've learnt to appreciate it and be grateful for daddy's
presence which I know is a very privileged one as not all children have
that.
Nonetheless, it's always a refreshing change
when I see the daddy and children bonding over stuff other than tablets.
Like how I was out one night and
I received photos on how he was bonding with Jill.
And, just the other night, after my usual nightly revisions with Jill, I
walked into the bedroom and was pleasantly surprised to see father
& son so warm & loving! Such a rare sight, that i just
HAD TO take these photos sneakily for keeps!
